Trying to please everyone will undoubtedly be exhausting, and nobody hands out trophies for burning yourself out. Say no without writing a ten-page apology. Anyone poking around in your private life can go find a different hobby, too. Sure, it's great that others are taking a keen interest in you, but you can set the boundaries on how much intel they gain.
See how the movement of the Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus, and Mars influence your every day.
How you advance and progress.